Proverbs 25:21

There's probably someone in your life who has hurt you, and if you're honest, the last thing you want to do is help them. That's exactly what makes this wisdom so powerful. It calls us to do the opposite of what a wounded heart naturally wants to do.

So what does this look like on an ordinary day? Maybe it's speaking kindly to the coworker who took credit for your work. Maybe it's dropping off a meal for a neighbor who gossiped about you, or genuinely praying for a blessing over someone who cut you out of their life.

Here's the beautiful secret: kindness toward an enemy often does more to free you than to change them. Every act of mercy is like unclenching a fist you didn't realize you were holding. Bitterness keeps you chained to the hurt, but compassion slowly sets you free.

Today, pick one person who has wronged you and ask God to show you one small way to be kind to them. It doesn't have to be dramatic. A kind word, a quiet prayer, or a simple act of generosity is enough to begin.

Remember, God didn't wait until you deserved His love before He gave it. He showed kindness to you when you were far from Him. Extending mercy to others is simply passing along what you've already received.

Father, You were kind to me when I least deserved it, so help me show that same kindness to those who have hurt me. Soften my heart where it has grown hard, and give me the courage to love when it's difficult. In Jesus' name, Amen.